Therapy vs. Coaching: Why Coaching Wins

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 05/05/2026

One thing I want to write about for you this morning is the difference between therapy and the type of work I do. I’ve been asked this by so many guys who’ve hopped on consultation calls with me over the years.

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Getting it Down to the Root: Why You Look Away Instead of Walking Over

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 09/04/2026

Today, I want to talk to you about something that isn’t discussed enough when it comes to interacting with women you find attractive. This isn’t about just working on your self-confidence. This is specifically about resolving the problem you have...

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Why You Think Your Life Isn’t Good Enough for Women

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 01/04/2026

You Don’t Need a Cooler Life. You Need to Respect the One You Already Have. If you believe your life is pretty cool… Then your life is pretty damn cool. Most guys miss how simple that actually is...

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The dark nature of why you still struggle with dating, friendships, and having social confidence

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 28/01/2026

A lot of men who struggle to date women, build friendships, or expand their social circle aren’t: • Lazy • Incapable. • Or lack strategy. They’re still living in denial about what they went through growing up. Bullying...

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